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What is it really like to breastfeed?

Nursing isn’t quite as simple as you might think. These real parents share their stories.


LearnWomen's healthPregnancyWhat is it really like to breastfeed?
Taking a breastfeeding class can be beneficial
You’ll become familiar with clogged ducts and nipple issues...
...and engorgement and leaking
As your baby gets older, they may get distracted
It can feel empowering
Not all parents are able to breastfeed
Formula is a great option, too
Breastfeeding and traveling takes planning
Pumping at work may pose some logistical problems
It can be a lot of work

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Most parents-to-be are told this familiar mantra during pregnancy: Breast is best.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) does recommend that infants should be exclusively breastfed and/or receive pumped breast milk for about six months after being born. But for some parents and babies, nursing just isn’t that simple.

How do you know if breastfeeding is right for you?

It’s hard to have the answers prior to your child’s birth, but hearing from parents who’ve already gone through the experience may give you some insight. These eight parents—some who breastfed and some who didn’t—get real about what it’s like to nurse and pump, all while adjusting to life as a new parent.

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Written by Olivia DeLong.
Medically reviewed by Joanne Perron, MD, MPH.November, 2023
Updated onAugust, 2026
Written by Olivia DeLong.
Medically reviewed by Joanne Perron, MD, MPH.November, 2023
Updated onAugust, 2026
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