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4 ways to maintain a vibrant sex life as you age

Lifestyle changes and hormonal shifts can affect your vagina during perimenopause and beyond.


LearnHormone healthMenopause4 ways to maintain a vibrant sex life as you age
Check up on your hormones
Lift your libido
Take steps to ease any pain
Take steps to increase arousal

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As we move into our 40s and 50s, many things adapt and change. It’s the time of life when work stress and family responsibilities may be ramping up, while the physical changes of perimenopause and menopause can make your vagina feel very… well, different. If you’re experiencing some discomfort and it’s affecting your libido, there are plenty of things you can do to rejuvenate both your vagina and your sex life.

With that in mind, here are tips on how to manage this type of discomfort and protect your well-being.

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Written by Olivia DeLong.
Medically reviewed by Kevin Soden, MD, MPH.April, 2026
Updated onOctober, 2026
Written by Olivia DeLong.
Medically reviewed by Kevin Soden, MD, MPH.April, 2026
Updated onOctober, 2026
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