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Satisfying sex can—and should—happen as you get older.
“A woman's best sex truly can happen at any time,” says Melissa Hague, MD, an OBGYN in Wichita, Kansas. “That applies as long as she feels confident in the person she is, is secure with her partner, and she’s comfortable physically.”
Whatever stage of life you’re in, here are expert-approved tips for having healthy, satisfying sex.
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