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6 surprising ways to live longer

A healthy sex life, practicing forgiveness, and other tips for longevity.

Jan, 2026
LearnSexual health6 surprising ways to live longer
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Support your partner
Love your bedtime routine
Be a student for life
Drink more water
Shake up your sitting routine
Forgive and ask for forgiveness

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The longest living people in the world, like those in the “Blue Zones” of Okinawa, Japan and Sardinia, Italy, stay physically fit by:

  • Building exercise into their daily routine
  • Eating a plant-based diet like the Mediterranean diet
  • Drinking alcohol in moderation: one serving a day for women and two for men

But these centenarians, or people who live to at least 100 years, know that health and wellness involve more than just caring for your body. To live long, you have to live right—and that means nurturing your mind, spirit, and family, as well. Here are six ways to achieve that balance and put more meaningful years ahead of you.

Written byRose Hayes, MA, RN.
Medically reviewed byMegan Burke, MD.February, 2024
Sources: Blue Zones. About Blue Zones. 2022. Accessed May 17 + 11
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